How To Be At Peace With Yourself

I’ve just woken up this morning and very grateful to see another day. Sometimes life can be overwhelming and we took what’s important in our life for granted. Our health, people, places, anything. And we regret it all the times. I wanna share with you some tips that I’ve done and still do actually to continuously to be at peace with life.

1. Forgive yourself.  This can be really hard, I know I experienced it my self. Just remember that you can’t control everything and you have to forgive yourself for it. Accept yourself for who you are.
2. Forgive other people. We are all humans and humans do make mistakes. Forgive everyone for your own sake. You have right to be at peace.
3. Try to think and feel from other’s perspectives. The root of every disappointment is actually our high expectations for others. Sometimes we forced people to have our minds, our feelings. Seriously, you can’t. Try to understand their situations. Listen to their minds, know what their feelings. And if you can help them, just help them. Helping people also makes some weird feelings called joy.
4. Open your mind. Learn new things, read books, browsing on internet do anything what you want to do to expand your horizons. Widened your mind to understand yourself more. You can’t understand other people if you don’t understand yourself first.
5. Don’t hold grudges, speak your mind. This also hard but very important. Sometimes we unconsciously hold grudges for everything. If you don’t agree, say it. If you like it, say it. Don’t hold grudges.  It can be really bad for your body and mind. Just take a deep breath, say it, forgive, and let it be.

I know guys, those are taking long process. I am also still making peace with everything. I understand completely that it’s not easy. But what life is for? We don’t have to be perfect and so does everyone else. Try to accept our flaws and making peace with our-self. I hope you guys have very good day. xoxo